I
have heard people say that people who want to be rich and wealthy
are greedy people with large egos. While this may be true in
some cases, I don’t think that there are any shortages
of poor or middle-class people with large egos.
The
question behind this is, “Why accomplish something beyond
your own survival?” These people cannot understand that “making
a living” isn’t all that difficult. Nearly anyone
can get a job to make a living and get by … it takes
something more within to achieve more outwardly.
I
also hear from people that they would be satisfied if they
could make enough money or have enough wealth to simply support
themselves. The problem I see with that kind of thinking is
that those are the same people who don’t provide much
to society. They are not the great movers and shakers of our
world.
I
will admit from personal experience that it does take a larger
than normal ego to really want to grow big. But on the other
hand, that part of the ego both serves and hinders me.
My
ego serves me in that it allows me to reach further and beyond
what I might normally do to simply be comfortable. Yet, it
hurts me in that sometimes it makes me a bit arrogant and self-righteous … or
that I think I know more than I truly do.
As
a whole I do acknowledge that ego allows me and others to achieve
goals greater than ourselves. But there are also many people
whom we respect in the business world that have even larger
egos.
I
have not yet met any of the following individuals on a personal
level to give a first-hand account of what kind of people they
are. However, I will leave it up to you if these people had
big egos. And in doing so, did the world benefit for having
what they created?
Can
you possibly imagine:
_
Walt Disney World without Walt Disney?
_ Wal-Mart without Sam Walton?
_ Microsoft without Bill Gates?
_ Dell Computers without Michael Dell?
_ Star Wars without George Lucas?
_ Rocky Balboa without Sylvester Stallone?
_ Star Trek without Gene Roddenberry?
_ E.T. without Steven Spielberg?
_ Rock and Roll without Elvis Presley?
The
list is virtually endless.
For
me, regardless of whom those people are or what they were truly
like, the world has benefited greatly because of the “bigness” of
these people. They achieved great and dreams … and yes … big
enough egos to believe they could achieve such things.
Please
understand that I am not making it wrong for people who prefer
to live a more humble and conservative lifestyle. However,
the truth of the matter is that the scope of influence for
most average people is fairly small and limited. Even if they
want to make a bigger contribution to the world and serve more
people, they are unable to do so … not because of their
skills or abilities - but because of the mental limitations
they have imposed on themselves in their minds and lifestyle.
It
does not upset me that people would prefer to live a smaller
scope of lifestyle where they simply provide for their family.
We should be so lucky to have even more people. There are so
many deadbeats in the world.
What
upsets me is when those people automatically pass judgment
on others who strive to be greater than themselves … simply
to justify their own smallness and limited scope.
The
fact is when you stay small; you can only help so many people
in society. When you become larger, your scope of influence
is greater and you can potentially affect more change. My goal
is to help make more positive changes in the world. Part of
that strategy was for me to take the time to write this book,
and then personally publish it to get it out into the world
at large.
I
would even venture to say that many people who choose to stay
small and only worry about making enough for themselves are
sometimes more selfish than the wealthy people who provide
opportunities to others, pay more taxes, give to charities,
and change the communities and lifestyles of others. Wealthy
people take on a greater sense of responsibility.
So
which do you want to be? Would you prefer to simply make enough
so you can support yourself? Or would you like a shot to step
up to a larger scope and make a difference on a grander scale?
It is up to you.
The
Truth About Credit Cards
Credit
cards seem to get a bad rap in the public media. You constantly
see books and so-called experts publicly bashing credit cards:
how bad they are, how dangerous they are, and so on.
True … there
are credit cards that have the fine print where they hide high
interest rates loaded with hidden fees and annual costs. However,
there are also many cards that do not have any of this.
The
so-called “experts” blame the credit card companies
for offering their cards to potential customers to abuse. They
claim high-risk people are “not qualified” to have
credit cards so they shouldn’t get them. That may be
so, but it is not the “experts” that are taking
the financial risk to offer the cards to new customers. The
credit companies are. Last time I checked, I didn’t see
any of those experts offering anything but their criticism.
This
is like saying that chocolate companies should stop selling
their candy bars where overweight people shop because they
are at a high risk of buying more chocolate in order to become
even more overweight! Recently, there was a court case where
someone tried to sue McDonald’s … claiming that
it was their fault that he was obese. Apparently, he went to
McDonald’s everyday to eat and he became obese over several
years of eating there.
I
thought to myself, “What idiot doesn’t know that
McDonald’s serves fast food that is fattening? And did
McDonalds hold a gun to this guy and say ‘Buy our food
or else!’? Were there no other restaurants to eat at?
I
think not.
In
any case, I digress. This type of attitude takes the responsibility
off of the person truly responsible: the consumer - or more
appropriately - the spender.
There
is nothing inherently wrong or evil about credit cards. The
credit card is a financial tool used to convey payments in
a manner much like checks, money orders, cashiers checks, and
debit cards.
It
is true that there are many financially irresponsible people,
and perhaps they are truly unable to control their buying habits.
However, the fault lays with the user of the credit card … not
the credit card companies.
There
needs to be more of an emphasis on educating people on how
to better use their credit cards, control their spending habits,
as well as in dealing with the underlying emotions and motivations
of buying and spending.
I
have been an active user of credit cards since I was nineteen.
I love my credit cards! Even though I have been a user of credit
cards for most of my life, I don’t generally carry a
balance. The times I carried credit balances have been times
when I needed it - such as when unexpected expenses came up
and they needed to be taken cared of. Credit cards have always
been a helpful financial instrument for me. But then again,
I had at a young age realized that financial power comes with
financial responsibility.
I
have often used credit cards to fund entrepreneurial ventures
that no bank would even bother to look at much less approve
a loan for. Sure … I admit that I have lost money on
those ventures, but I have also made money with them.
Often,
I would simply use my credit cards to buy office supplies,
computer equipment, software, educational materials, business
travel, seminars … things to that effect.
What
people fail to realize is that there are times when it’s
better to pay interest now rather than to let time pass. For
example, a seminar taken this year is often more valuable to
me than one taken next year. Is the interest I pay for that
one year worth having the information one year sooner? Often,
if it is unavoidable, I will commit earlier.
No
one would ever argue against the idea that it’s better
to learn how to add and subtract numbers while you are in elementary
school rather than in high school. The reason being has to
do with the cost of staying ignorant for a short time versus
a long time. There often is a negative ripple effect for delayed
knowledge.
As
an entrepreneur, I respect credit cards and value them greatly.
People are running around saying that using credit cards is
bad, and that all interest you pay on credit cards is likewise
bad. This is because most people buy consumer “junk” that
has little value thirty days after it leaves the store.
I
don’t make these kinds of generalizations regarding my
finances. I make finer, more personal distinctions for myself.
If I go out and eat at an expensive restaurant and charge it
to my credit card, I know I have very little to show for it
when the monthly statement comes in. However, if I buy a new
color printer for my computer system, there is a good chance
it will continue to provide ongoing value. It isn’t the
credit card; it is what you use it for.
I
know what is required and what the costs are for charging on
credit cards, as well as all the possible consequences. I have
learned to be a responsible and knowledgeable user.
People
who know me will agree that I am fairly generous with myself
when it comes to self-improvement or business-related expenses.
The reason I am so generous is because more often than not,
I don’t buy impulsively. I evaluate the money I am going
to spend versus what I can get out of it. To me, it is an investment.
And if it is something that I have determined as mandatory,
I then see if the interest I have to pay is worth getting it
today versus waiting until I have all the money. It is all
a matter of return on my investment.
Instead
of teaching people how to think about and evaluate what they
buy, many people simply say that credit cards are bad. I think
that is an overly simplistic judgment and a very limiting point
of view … especially when it can be a great source of
entrepreneurial money.
The
fact of the matter is the major companies use debt to finance
their growth and success; they know it is a form of leverage.
If they borrow money at 10%, they know it is their job to generate
20% or more.
Don’t
get me wrong. I do believe that there is a point of having
too much debt. This is called overleveraging.
If
you eat too much ice cream, you can become obese. But does
that automatically make eating ice cream bad? No! The fault
lies with the person who is doing the eating.
There
is this never-ending cycle that I see some people go through:
people have poor spending habits. They spend poorly, regret
it, and spend months or years paying off a debt that gives
them very little benefit. Instead of taking on the responsibility
themselves, they put the entire blame on the credit card company.
As
I said, I have not carried credit card balances for most of
my life. And the times in which I have carried credit balances,
it has mostly been for business-related expenses or unexpected
personal expenses.
As
an entrepreneur and investor, financing is crucial. And unless
you have become well established, financing can be quite the
challenge. So, if I cannot formally obtain financing from banks
or investors, then I am required to finance it myself.
When
I left the corporate world, I had only a little bit of money
saved up. But I did not let that stop me from leaving … partially
because I understood the power of financing and credit cards.
I didn’t have all the equipment and credentials I needed
to become a successful freelance technology instructor. Some
of the things I needed included a notebook computer, additional
desktop computers, software, supplies, as well as attending
seminars and conventions.
I
felt quite confident that I would be successful, but I would
be required to ramp up. Ultimately, I was faced with the “chicken
or the egg syndrome.” I didn’t have all the required
money to ramp up and be successful. And without being ramped
up, I couldn’t make the money to pay all the startup
costs.
Because
leaving the corporate world required some contrarian’s
thinking on my part, I surmised that I would have to find a
way to make things happen to get ramped up. As it turned out,
I managed to barter my services by offering my time to perform
pro bono work. However, I also didn’t hesitate to spend,
get into debt, and pay the interest … because the spending
I made would ultimately make me money. Yet, I was getting into
debt by investing in my business and myself … not junk
that sat in the closet.
As
a result of my decisions, I became fully ramped up within a
year. And when I did, it was only a matter of months before
I paid off the underlying debt. I did most of this with credit
cards.
Now,
most people will say that this was risky. What if I didn’t
make it? I admit that there is always the possibility of failure,
but the bottom line is people who don’t make the leap
lose anyway. They are trapped in a job with limited income
and limited time. They then spend money by charging their purchases
to their credit cards. In turn, these purchases don’t
make them any money, and they ultimately spend most of their
lives repeating this vicious cycle.
Diminishing Effect of Reducing Expenses
At
this point, you should realize (as I had years ago) that the
road to personal freedom is very possible. You do not need
to be rich to create perpetual wealth and live a life of personal
freedom.
There
are fundamentally two ways of creating perpetual wealth:
_
Increase income layers.
_ Increase income layers while reducing expense layers.
We
seem to live in a culture of great extremes in the United States.
We see a life of extravagance and excess on our televisions
and movie screens on one end … while on the other end
we see a world of scarcity and desperation on the streets of
our slums and ghettos.
In
the realms of the middle-class, there are people who believe
they need to work harder and demand more raises to better their
lifestyles. Then there are also those people who believe they
should start cutting coupons and bottom-feed (acquire things
very cheap or free).
I
am a first-generation Chinese-American. As such, I have plenty
of exposure to Asian cultures … which place a strong
emphasis on frugality. People who come from Asian cultures
tend to first look at cutting back on their expenses … with
some to an extreme amount.
Subconsciously,
the thought is that money is scarce … so the first thought
is to simply cut back. I have no problems with people cutting
back expenses; except for those people who do it to extremes.
I
do believe that there is a point of diminishing effect in the
continual emphasis on cutting expenses. The situation is not
helped when so much financial advice today revolves around
the mentality of clipping coupons or buying at the flea market.
However, people who live in extravagance they can’t afford
could learn and adopt a few good habits from frugal people.
For
most people, I do believe that there is room for paring down
expense layers. In today’s society, we have so many things
taken for granted as necessities in our lives. It could be
the weekend dinners, the annual vacation, the third telephone
line, the second computer, the second television, the third
VCR, the third cell phone, the third car for the teenage child,
the Christmas gifts, the magazine subscriptions, and so on.
These
are often absorbed into our credit cards … when actually
they should only be short-term expense blocks. But unfortunately
many people convert those short-term expense blocks into long-term
expense layers – such as when they use a home equity
loan (long-term expense layers) to payoff (replace) their credit
card debts (short-term expense blocks).
It
is not my place to tell people what their standard of living
should be; it is a very personal choice. However, there generally
is a financial price to pay for choosing a higher standard
of living versus a lower standard of living in the early stages
of creating wealth. This price can be seen by how high your
expense layers are as compared to how much progress you have
to make in creating the offsetting income layers.
For
some people, I believe that this would be a monumental task.
It can be done, but it would require more time and effort to
create income layers to match the higher levels of the expense
layers.
Conversely,
I also realize that there are negative consequences by living
too low a living standard from the extreme cutting back of
costs. There are consequences that go beyond the simplistic
expense layer model I have described and shown you in this
book.
For
example, not having a car in New York City is fundamentally
different than not having a car in Atlanta. Not having a car
in New York City will probably save you money, minimize expenses … and
not to mention the aggravation of parking. You can eliminate
that expense layer easily in New York City. However, you will
still have a transportation expense layer because of bus, subway,
and taxi fares.
Yet,
while not having a car in Atlanta may help minimize expenses,
you would also eliminate your source of income by not being
able to get to work in a timely manner. Anyone who has been
in Atlanta realizes that having a car is almost a necessity
of life there.
There
are some considerations that we must make for ourselves and
the area in which we live.
How
about people who try to save money by not using the air-conditioner
in the summer heat of the South or the heating furnace in the
deep winter cold in the North? Every year there are news reports
of people who have died in the summer heat or the deep winter
cold. I think that most of us will agree that saving in these
areas is not the way to go … especially when it can potentially
be life threatening.
Here
is another example:
A
family of four living in San Francisco will probably have a
difficult time trimming expenses if their expense levels are
already at $4,000 per month. It is very difficult to minimize
expenses when you are already at rock-bottom expense levels
for the area you live in.
I
see too many supposed “financial experts” giving
generalized advice without making distinctions for different
circumstances and environments.
Because
people blindingly believe so-called “financial experts” when
they say that everyone must save money and minimize expenses,
they don’t realize that they are sometimes beating their
heads against a brick wall.
There
is a point of diminishing effect in the strategy of only minimizing
expenses. At some point, you will have cut back all you can
before winding up living in the streets. Sometimes the personal
energy required to shave off that last $10 per month is simply
not worth it.
When
you have hit the point of diminishing returns of minimizing
expenses, there is only way to start focusing: the income and
leverage side.
Each
time I quit cold turkey, plummeting to a zero income, I always
knew going in that I would have unavoidable expenses. No matter
how much I saved and cut back, I would still have a certain
amount of expenses, such as my car, insurance, food, housing,
and so forth. I knew that after a certain point in looking
at my budget there was only so much money I could save and
expenses I could cut. Any more thought and effort in cutting
expenses was largely going to be a waste of my time and energy.
There
are some people that look day in and day out to reduce expenses
that virtually cannot be reduced. They persist in being cheap,
clipping coupons, buying at flea markets, and engaging in activities
that use $20 worth of their time to save $5. That makes no
sense to me at all.
Bottom
line: Once expense levels have been minimized, all efforts
should be shifted towards creating and generating income. Small
companies have become great companies by focusing on growing
business and revenues. Ordinary people become wealthy by focusing
on growing their business and income … not solely on
minimizing expenses and saving money.
For
the people who have too many goodies in your house … and
you know who you are! You are the people who have all kinds
of sports equipment or memorabilia lying around unused. You
are the people who have the unneeded extra cars, boats, big-screen
televisions, closets stuffed only with designer clothing, and
are members of all the “cool” clubs. You can probably
work on reducing expense layers. You need to start focusing
inwards, getting things under control, and STOP worrying about
keeping up with the “cool people” or latest fads.
Once you do that, you can once again focus outwards … but
this time around you will be looking for opportunities to create
income layers instead of getting the latest gizmos and gadgets.
For
the people who already are frugal … likewise you all
know who you are. You are the people who only buy generic brands,
use candles for light, have little furniture, no food in the
refrigerator, and will not read any books that you can’t
get from the library. You probably don’t need to devote
any more time in reducing expense layers. You need to start
focusing your thinking outwards to create income layers … instead
of inwards on expenses.
It
is the best way out to personal freedom. Take my word for it.
Saving
Money
The
term “save money” brings two different meanings
to my mind:
1.
Reducing expenses.
2. Accumulating money for future use – both short and
long-term.
We
discussed the diminishing effect of reducing expenses in the
previous section.
In
short-term money saving, you might accumulate money from your
disposable income or tax refund, and then use it as a down
payment for a new car, house, or investment property. In long-term
money saving, you may be accumulating money for retirement.
I
am a proponent for short-term savings, where you save up for
specific needs. Saving up for a small down payment to buy a
new car is probably a good use of money … especially
if your old car is in disrepair or requires excessive maintenance.
Saving up a down payment to buy a house where you will live
for more than five years is also probably a good idea. Saving
up for a down-payment to buy an income-producing investment
property is a great idea … IF you know what to buy.
I
am not a big supporter for long-term savings … especially
as a plan for retirement. It is simply just too slow and impractical
a practice for most people.
I
wonder how many people in their 50’s and older are still
thinking that they will save up enough money to provide them
with twenty years-worth of future living expenses?
I
have heard over the years that people should save three to
six month’s worth of income before you change jobs. This
old idea obviously has not been updated for the 21st century.
Nowadays, many of the job changes are involuntary, sudden,
and without warning.
Also,
exactly how long does it take to save just one month’s
income for reserves? Most people probably use most of their
one-month’s income just for living expenses. How much
could possibly be left? Will it take two, four, or six months
to save up one month’s worth of reserves? I am willing
to bet that taking six months to save a month’s income
is quite optimistic.
In
my own life, I found that it actually takes many months to
save just one month of income. The problem with trying to save
six months of income is that it requires much more than six
months saving it! It could take years to save that much … if
at all! If I were to follow the old, tired advice, I would
still be working to save it instead of being personally free
to further increase my wealth.
For
me, it is a terrible plan and just plain bad advice to give
people.
Hoarding
Money
The
whole premise of saving money year after year is really the
act of hoarding money for yourself year after year … never
to be released again until that magical time of retirement
or dire emergencies in your life.
Saving
money is also based not only on the premise that money is scarce,
but also that it must be hoarded year after year so that you
can survive in your older years. Furthermore, it is also assumed
that in order for you to have money, you must first “own” the
money.
I
have discovered that money is quite plentiful. The more skilled
I am in tapping into money; raising, managing, and investing
it, the more money comes to me. It allows me the freedom to
enjoy writing, teaching, speaking, and traveling. I get the
time to study, learn, and be with abundant and like-minded
people, who give me counsel, ideas, and knowledge to be even
more effective.
I
now create wealth and money for myself because I know how to
manage and direct the flow of money, with tangible and intangible
resources. In economics, this is called capital management.
The
reality is that the greatest wealth in the world has never
been based on the premise of solely saving money. Wealth has
been created by either investing money or spending money to
create value.
In
any profession or industry, people or companies built their
wealth and fortune by investing or spending their money on
employees, real estate, equipment, marketing, research, development,
and so on.
They
made their fortunes by using money and resources to create
value for their customers. They were rewarded by the gifts
of ongoing patronage, subscriptions, fees, etc. … which
in turn increased their wealth. They then took that wealth
and repeated or expanded upon the cycle in order to create
larger businesses and investments.
Now,
I want to point out that I am not endorsing the idea of spending
or investing money recklessly. I am not saying that you shouldn’t
save money in order to invest in or start a business. I am
also not saying that you shouldn’t save some money for “rainy
days.”
What
I am saying is that using the sole strategy of “saving
money” to create wealth and retirement fundamentally
goes against the nature of money; which is to be harnessed … not
hoarded.
For
most people, saving is too slow and too ineffective a strategy
to make any kind of difference in their lives. In my opinion,
it is the road to mediocrity and averageness. You might be
able to support yourself when you retire, but you will likely
have to live a life of frugality based on limited income. You
will have provided employment to no one, given little to few
charities, and provided little impact to the world around you
because you hoarded money.
Freedom
Without Riches
Some
time ago, I chose to attend different events that literally
took me cross-country; from Atlanta, to Phoenix, then Austin,
and finally New York City … all within a three-week time
frame. It was an exhausting three weeks of primarily living
in hotels. However, I did stop at home in between trips for
a day or two to get a change of clothes and rest before having
to leave again.
While
I was on the road, I simply checked in on the Internet periodically
to monitor my business activities and finances.
During
the quiet moments of my travel, I realized how fortunate I
was to be able to get away for three straight weeks to enjoy
the events I attended. I met and socialized with interesting
and like-minded people, whereas most other people had to go
to work at a job they didn’t like and exhausted them.
Conceptually,
I knew I had made into reality the fact that I didn’t
have to be rich to have monetary freedom. Part of that monetary
freedom was having the peace of mind in knowing that I could
continue to be away while the money would also continue to
come in. As long as I continued to effectively manage and nurture
my assets, the money will continue to come.
Now
there may be some cynics who will say that I still work, and
if I stopped working that my money would eventually stop coming
in. I admit that this is partially correct. But again they
probably have Lottery Winners Syndrome where they expect to
get something by putting in virtually nothing.
In
my personal life, I tend to stay up late at night and I get
up late in the morning. When I wake up, I do things I have
to do … but I don’t consider a lot of it “work” because
I do not dislike what I do. Furthermore, many other things
don’t require a lot of my time and effort.
In
fact, if I wanted to rest on my laurels, I could live a semi-retired
and conservative lifestyle “working” only ten hours
a week. The more effective, efficient, and experienced I am,
the less time and effort I have to put in to create the same
or greater results.
No
matter how efficient an employee is and no matter how many
technical advances in automation or computers, the amount of
time an employee puts in will always matter. Their productivity
will go up, but they still have to work fulltime and as such,
they will never gain much time freedom. And remember: without
time freedom, it is very difficult to achieve personal freedom … to
become wealthy and live the life you want.
I
strive at all times to be a better thinker, planner, and manager … not
a better laborer. A better manager and thinker gets more done
in less time. A better laborer gets more done in the same amount
of time. There is a huge difference there!
“Income
based on assets set you free. Income based on labor keep
you imprisoned.”
The
Value of Money is Relative
When
I decided to create my own monetary freedom, I had to come
to terms with the realization that if I decided to quit my
current lifestyle, where I no longer had an income, I would
become reliant on the odd jobs, credit lines, and credit cards
I had.
Although
I knew that there would be many opportunities to create income
layers and build up my business, I would also have to take
care of my immediate needs; namely continue making rent payments,
pay utilities, putting gas in my car, buying groceries, and
also have funds to still buy books, courses, attend events,
office supplies, and other business-related expenses.
Additionally,
I knew that real estate was essential to my strategy; therefore
I had to allocate some resources to acquire real estate.
I
had to seriously challenge my core beliefs and assumptions.
The dilemma was that my personal financing sources were limited.
I did not believe that my personal financing sources should
be substantial enough to last me five years or more, but I
did want it to last as long as possible. I only needed it to
last long enough so that I was no longer drawing from it.
I
have known about the cost of living since I was eighteen years
old. For example, the cost of living in San Francisco or New
York City would be much higher than that found in Atlanta … even
though each one are considered to be a major city.
Also,
because I wanted to conduct business and buy real estate, I
knew that the price and demand for real estate within those
areas would be prohibitive … and would be a significant
barrier of entry if I had lived and did business in those places.
With
these observations, I realized that although the American dollar
was accepted in all fifty states, the weight of money varied
greatly from state to state … even from city to city
within a state.
So
if I had $20,000 in financing lined up, it could last a year
in a smaller town in Alabama or Georgia versus lasting only
three months in California.
Furthermore,
if I had $5,000 to put towards real estate, it would be considered
a great joke in high-appreciating areas of the country … whereas
it would otherwise be considered as a significant down-payment
towards an investment house in a small Georgia city or town.
The
weight of the American dollar is relative to the area in which
you live, invest, and do business. I realized that if I wanted
to magnify the power of my funds, I would have to move to an
area where $1,000 got me a whole a lot more.
The
Tides of Money
One
of the things I have learned about wealth are the “tides
of money” … money flows in, and then money flows
out - and usually in unequal amounts. This is what I refer
to as the Tides of Money.
I
have noticed many people don’t like change … especially
in their financial status. I hear people say that they want
a steady job with a steady income. It is more important for
most people to have a steady income rather than have a higher
income.
In
economics, we learned that a business cycle consists of recessions
and depressions, expansion and prosperity.
Likewise,
on a smaller level, entrepreneurs and investors have to be
aware and prepare for the tides of money that will inevitably
occur.
Since
the movement of money is normal and expected, there will be
times when money is plentiful and other times when money is
tight.
People
who believe money should always flow inwards will be ill-prepared
for economic downturns and financial setbacks. Also, people
who believe that money is always tight will not be prepared
for sudden growth and unexpected business opportunities.
In
conventional terms, managing the tides of money is called cash
flow management.
The
term “tides of money” is much more appropriate
because the term liquidity is often used in financial management.
Liquidity implies that money ebbs and flows.
It
is your ability to manage these money tides that determine
whether you are to be successful long-term. How well you steer
that sailboat through those ebbing and flowing tides will ultimately
determine whether your boat will sink or float.